What Do You Get When You Cross a Letter with Email?

Followup is so important to the networking process.

If you meet a new contact and never communicate with that person again, the networking you are doing is a waste of time. It it so wonderful to receive a note from someone I've just met, and I know the benefit of sending thank you notes and follow- up missives. My challenge up to this point has been finding the time to write those important notes, find the stamps and remember to take the letters to the post office.

Now I am using Sendoutcards.com. It is so great! It automates as much as possible this task without taking the me part out of it. This web-based service allows me to choose a card from over a 1000 designs. I can type a message to be printed inside the card. Because I can choose font color and design, my blue ink message looks very much like I actually wrote it myself (and will even more after I get my own custom font back.) After entering in the contact information of the person I am sending it to, I hit the send button and Sendoutcards.com takes over. The next morning my printed card is sent out via the US Mail, with a real stamp on the envelope. It's so easy that it is almost sinful! A card including postage can be sent for $1.01. Now that's the best and most economical use of marketing dollars available!

Ivan Misner, Chairman of BNI, realized the value of this service and has named Sendoutcards.com a strategic partner of BNI. That's quite an accolade as Misner doesn't partner with just anyone.

Just so you know, Julie Higby (organized@buckeye-express.com) is my representative for Sendoutcards.com. She has put up with all my questions and late evening phone calls when I can't figure something out. I am not so talented in this technology stuff, so probably I have more challenges than others!

Who do you need to send a note to and what do you need to say?

WiN - July Meeting Recap & August Meeting update

Hello Everyone!
Well, we are mid-way into August, and it's time to update you on our upcoming WIN meeting and recap July's meeting. I want to thank everyone who attended the July meeting and let you know that our membership has increased from 10 to 15!

The August meeting will be held again at the Bonfire Restaurant on Thursday, August 31st from 11:15 am to 1:30 pm. Please RSVP via email or phone to confirm your attendance. (Please note that if you have confirmed your attendance but cannot attend, please let me know no later than the day before so that I can inform the restaurant otherwise I will be billed for your meal and will unfortunately have to forward that cost onto you). I am still researching other venues for our lunch meetings. If you have any suggestions please let me know. As our membership grows we can also start looking into having our meetings catered.

Our speaker for the August meeting will be Karen Bambrough of Weekenders. The new Fall line of Weekenders clothing has arrived and Karen will be putting on a small fashion show to "show-off" the great styles and colours of this new collection. You don't want to miss it!

REMINDER 1: Don't forget to pack a small door prize to bring with you as this gives you another opportunity to introduce yourself to the group and pass along a token of you and your business (remember to attached a business card)!

REMINDER 2: If you are a member and are interested in speaking at one of our upcoming meetings, please let me know. Also, if you are interested in a vendor table for the August meeting the cost is $10.00 which gives you a table to "show and tell" and a 5 minute opportunity to talk about you and your business.

REMINDER 3: I am hoping to confirm our September guest speaker, Leslie Traill - Astrologer, Business Coach, Meditation Coach, Speaker and Mentor. Please let me know by the end of this month if you will be attending the September meeting, please invite a friend or co-worker to join us! You can visit Leslie's website at http://www.leslietraill.com.

THE BIGGEST REMINDER: Our first member directory and newsletter will be printed for the September meeting. Send me your business card artwork, a bio of you and your business, an upcoming event... this is free advertising for all WIN members! If you are unsure what to send talk to me at the next meeting. The deadline for submissions is Friday, September 8th.

NEW MEMBERS

Welcome to Sue Sutcliffe of AWebThat Works.com. Sue and her team provides a full line of website services including website development, search engine intelligence and ranking, domain names, hosting, Internet training, coaching and seminars. Sue and I have been working together since early this year and we have built a wonderful working relationship and friendship as a result. Sue and I will be working closely over the months of August and September to bring about the WiN website. www.awebthatworks.com

Welcome to Maria Buragina of Basketworks. Maria provides creative gift ideas for individuals and corporate clients. www.basketworks.ca

Welcome to Gayle Jones of the Lindsay Chamber of Commerce. The Lindsay Chamber of Commerce represents more than 500 businesses and associations in the southern half of the City of Kawartha Lakes and Gayle represents the marketing end of this great organization. Her roll is to help you market your business using the vast resources the Lindsay Chamber of Commerce has to offer. www.lindsaychamber.com

Welcome to Janet O'Mara of Gregory & Associates. Janet was literally "born" into her career of bookeeping. If your bookeeping skills are weak or lacking that level of expertise then take advantage of Janet's years of experience to keep you and your business on track.

Welcome to Joanne Jehu of Faithlife Financial. Joanne can help you to determine your family's financial needs and custom design an insurance and investment program that's just right for you - ensuring a secure future for your loved ones. www.faithlifefinancial.ca/about/district_reps/show_rep.cgi/jjehu

A special "thank you" to Gloria Broad of Mary Kay cosmetics for a wonderful talk about "Attitude and Marketing your Business". We sometimes take for granted the power of positive thinking, so let's think positive, believe in ourselves and use the strength and knowledge of the members of WIN to help achieve our successes!

WiN - June Meeting "The First of Many"!

I hope you enjoyed a nice relaxing long weekend. I wanted to say thank you to everyone who joined us last Thursday at the Bonfire for our first WiN - Women In Networking luncheon. I hope you enjoyed yourself as much as I did. I met a lot of inspiring women some of those who are just venturing into the world of small business for the first time. This is such a great opportunity to meet new women and draw from each others experiences, knowledge and support. I hope you can all make it out to our July meeting to be held again at the Bonfire on Thursday, July 27th, from 11:15am to 1:30pm.

Congratulations and welcome to our new members:
Glenda Ashby - Maid in Canada
Darlene Blades - Gentle Hands Restoration
Gloria Broad - Mary Kay Cosmetics
Heather Chapman - ExcluZiv Marketing
Monica Fowler - Clarica Financial
Barbara Leffering - Quilt•A•Grafix
Katy Martin - Pic•Tur•This
Leslie Orr - Clarica Financial
Rebecca Sniderman - Can Serve Legal Services
Jasminka Vila - Tours By You, Guide Services

Remember... SAVE $10.00 on a yearly membership when you join in July, only $25.00.
Please note: We love our guests as they help grow our membership, but after you have joined us twice as a guest, we ask that you make a decision whether or not you are going to join our group.


Membership includes:
• the opportunity to network with a wonderful group of women
• a 1 minute opportunity to promote yourself and your business
• a 10 min. opportunity to promote yourself and your business as a guest speaker
• the addition of your name and business info into the quarterly membership directory
• the opportunity to advertise in the “WiN”quarterly newsletter
• the opportunity to take part in member to member programs

Extras:
• purchase a vendor table and “show-off” your wares plus have a 5 min. opportunity
to promote yourself and your business - $10.00
• purchase a web page for your business on the WiN website for only $5.00/month
• take part in combined advertising programs

Please reply via email if you would like to register for the July meeting.
"Each One - Reach One", tell a friend, bring a guest!

When is Networking Not?

Today at the invitation of Barb McCoy (The Real McCoy), I spoke to the Monroe, Michigan Kiwanis Club that meets at the 1st Presbyterian Church at noon. Barb is Ass't VP at Monroe Bank and Trust and also the VP of this club. I knew that I would only have 10 minutes so I wanted to be sure to deliver a powerful, memorable message about networking. This group seems to have a lot of fun together and already have connections within the club membership.

I talked about two topics that are related within the networking realm. Concept one was the time it takes to develop trust with others and concept two was how to go about developing that trust.

After delivering my part, they had questions. One member was put up to asking the question by the other guys at his table. They wanted to know what I thought about networking when they meet with someone and that someone talks incessantly only about themselves. I explained that the scenario could be confused with networking but what was happening was that really the talker was selling, not developing trust.

They understood the answer, but didn't know what to do when they get caught in such a situation. I gave my answer, but I'm asking all you to suggest a way to quiet the talker.

What would you do?

Aerial Dog Fight

This morning I had the luxury of being in my office which doesn't often happen. My office window looks out over our front porch. The geraniums and red salvia are really in their splendor right now. The hummingbirds have been visiting like crazy, sticking their needle sharp beaks into the throats of the flowers.

This morning there were two little dynamos vying for territory. They spent more time (and probably more energy) trying to get rid of the other one than they did sipping the nectar. They were comical in their fierceness.

As I was watching them, they made me think of how human competitors sometimes act in the very same manner. Instead of seeing how to help each other be more successful, they work very diligently to discredit the other. The energy used for such endeavors is not productive and certainly takes valuable time away from being successful.

When have you seen hummingbird-like behavior from your competitors?

Social Network Connection

About a week ago, I was downloading email and I noticed a message from Classmates.com. Normally I would just delete the message, but it said something about my 40th class reunion. This caught my eye because our class had such a reunion this summer, but I was not able to attend. The thought I had was that perhaps there were pictures. Somehow whatever I clicked connected me to the Classmates.com message board. There was nothing really new about my class reunion but to my surprise, there was a message posted last January for a camp reunion. I emailed the contact listed and then she sent me to the official website for Tally Ho Music Camp at MyFamily.com.

I attended Tally Ho Music Camp south of Rochester, NY, in the summers of my 7th, 8th and 9th grades. That is a long time ago! I have not talked with most of those former campers since 1963, the last time I attended camp. But what fun! Of course it is great seeing all the names of people, and even better seeing the pictures, both vintage and new. It is amazing to me how old everyone else is now! Again, I missed the reunion, but it looks like they had so much fun that they are going to do it again, and I want to be there. In this old picture, I am 6th from the left in the front row.

Without the social networks, such as Classmates.com and MyFamily.com that have spread throughtout the Internet, groups such as Tally Ho Campers could never find each other. Isn't it amazing that people can now re-connect for fun and many times for serious stuff.

What reunion would you like to find out about?

One to One?

Just the other day in a networking meeting, a novice to the whole networking scene asked, "What is a one on one and what do you do when you have one?"

Great question. A one on one is when you make time to meet with another person.

When you plan to meet with that someone else, the idea should be to find out how you can help that person.

Some people are really, really good at this. Some people are really, really bad. Those people think it is an opportunity to sell and boy do they go about it full force ahead.

In the Northwest Ohio area, there are now over 300 people who have completed the Certiifed Newworker course. While it may not be 100%, most will ask, "How can I help you?" as the first or second question. I am proud of them. They are changing the voice of the business world. They are more about serving others rather than selfishing serving themselves.

What experience have you had when you've met one to one with another business person?

Serendipity Networking

A couple weeks ago I participated in the Dragon Boats races on the Maumee River in downtown Toledo. It was a day of fun, being outside, talking with the other 19 crew members, and being competitive.

Our boat lost in our championship flight after our steersman fell into the river having lost his balance. Good thing we had practiced that emergency "thing" in our Thursday night practice.

A good steersman is hard to find. Last year the organizers supplied that position for many crews, but the race is getting more and more popular so that there were double the teams this year from last. We were told that we needed to find our own steersman.

Inexperience means for interesting happenings, hence the drenching of ours.

Fast forward. Last night I served on a one time advisory board for a local business and there were several others doing the same. Guess what? I found a steersman! This guy sounds experienced. He participated last year, but didn't this year because his team did not race. But he loves the races and wants to be involved next year. Who would think that being willing to volunteer a couple hours could end being so valuable? Serendipity.

When have you done something that turned out even better than you ever imagined?

The Prime Question

Last week I was invited to speak to a group in Bowling Green, Ohio about Marketing Yourself. Now I laughingly told the group that we needed to change the title because it might make them think that I was going to talk about PR and all that printed stuff that goes along with marketing a business. In those areas I am not an expert!

New title was Marketing Yourself With Networking. I started by asking the audience what one question they thought was most important for them to ask when networking. After a few attempts they got the prime query of, "What can I do to help you be more successful?" We then went on to talk about several different ways that you could help someone besides just sending them more business. This talk was only allotted 10 minutes, so that was about it.

Later that day I received an email from a young photographer, Michelle Roehl, who had just moved her business, Positive Images, into a new studio and is wanting very much to grow her business. She said, "after WEN I went to my son's hockey camp. This is the 3rd day and I sat with a Mom I have met several times before and have been sitting with to watch our sons the last 2 nights. She recently told me she had gone back to work as a hair stylist. So tonight when I got there, I asked her what I could do to help her business. Her response was that "actually now that you bring it up, I want to get my styles into beauty magazines and catalogs. I was recently discussing this with the salon owner and we were missing a photographer to photograph my clients.""

This all happened because Michelle didn't sell her own services, but allowed the person next to her to tell Michelle what she needed.

What's the most interesting request you've ever received when you asked that question?

How to Not Get People to Buy

The names have been change to protect the guilty here!

My weekly BNI meeting had just completed. I introduced myself to a visitor to ask for her card. I figured that she might be a good resource for another business friend.

I was wrong.

Here's why.

As soon as she handed me her card, she launched into a directive saying that she had products that could help me. After all, I had a cute haircut and presented myself well, but oh, I just needed help with the skin. Now I must admit that I had a big zit on my cheek, and I do have some wrinkles, but for an old broad closin' in on 60, I don't think I'm doing too badly. It was quite obvious that she had a different opinion.

I will never in a million years purchase products from her and also I will never refer her to my friend.

We have a saying in the networking class that I teach that says, "Move along the relationship scale as quickly and as APPROPRIATELY as possible." This women jumped to where my closest friends might tread lightly. She was inappropriate. She also didn't realize that she was infringing on the territory of a BNI member who does sell skin care products. But you know what? My feeling is that even if she did know it, she wouldn't have cared.

Where do you weigh in on this topic. Did she have the right. Am I being too critical? Have you ever been in the same situation where "for your own good" someone has proceeded to insult you?

Allowing People to Buy

Well, I had an entirely different idea to write about today, but it won't go bad, so I'll hold it for another day. Why? Scott Ginsberg did me a favor. He's that guy that wears the nametag 24/7; the 26 year old who just published his third book.

Now I ask you, What 26 year do you know who has accomplished this much??????

But on to the reason for this post. Scott's blog article today is entitled Don't Sell, Enable People to Buy. It is a chapter from his new book. If you visit Scott's blog, each day he is allowing people to read a few chapters from this book, How to Be That Guy. Scott's philosophy is so in line with the philosophy of the Certified Networker training course, that in Toledo we have made his second book, The Power of Approachability, one of three textbooks for the class series.

We begin our class series by telling our students that if they have come for sales training they can leave, because that's not what they are going to receive. There are a few puzzled looks but we enlighten them with the idea of taking the themselves out of the middle of the sale and letting others sell for them. Doing so means that by the time the prospect gets to the sales person, the prospect is ready to buy, because a third party has done all the advance work. Because the third party has nothing to gain, it is easier for them to sell someone else's products or services. Being willing to give up control means that you enable people to buy!

When was the last time you let someone else, who didn't work directly for you, sell your product or service?